1. Taqwa and Moral Consciousness
A spouse conscious of Allah will treat you with fairness, kindness, and restraint during moments of conflict or disagreement.
2. Emotional Maturity and Communication Skills
Look for someone who communicates calmly, accepts constructive feedback, takes responsibility for their actions, and respects personal boundaries.
3. Alignment in Family and Financial Expectations
Ensure both of you agree on fundamental topics like financial contribution, relationship with in-laws, and parenting philosophies.